Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_input. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_spinner. TORONTO, ON - SEPTEMBER 07: Actors (L-R) Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling attend 'The Place Beyond The Pines' premiere during the 2012 Toronto International Film Festival at Princess of Wales Theatre on September 7, 2012 in Toronto, Canada.-or- the "You don't understand the way it is today, things are a lot different than when you were a teenager." comment from you.Attracting an Older Guy Maintaining a Healthy Relationship with an Older Guy Avoiding Hazards When Dating Older Men Community Q&A When you are 18 or above, dating an older guy can be an exciting challenge.Turns out, there’s lots to love about women of a certain age.Men in their 20s date women over 30 because:“They understand better how to interact in a relationship.”Men in their 40s add:“Women over 30 have stopped putting metal through their lips and tongues which makes it easier to kiss them.I really should have answered her question with the long list of truly great things about dating an older man.I am a 20 year old female college student, i turn 21 in several months. He does not look "old"(not that 30 is old, by all means!!! Guys who are around 30 , would you date a woman who was 10 years younger than you? I was recently in a relationship with essentially the same age difference. In fact, I've never actually dated anyone older than 21.
I was in a relationship for 2 years and just recently broke up..was 1 year older than me and acted like 5 years younger than me. I am mature for my age and he's a little immature for his, but he doesn't play games, he has his sh** togeather, and treats me like a queen. Of course, the timeframe would definitely be something both would need to work out) 6. (I can't see anything but chaos arising out of completely disparate viewpoints on raising kids, no matter what the partners ages might be). Different aged peer groups (can lead to problems with finding common ground socially). Different aged partners might have same problem as above in #1. Comments of the public/friends: The old "cradle robber" idea for him, and the "sugar daddy" idea for you. Energy/vitality levels for the older person could be an issue if he can't "keep up" with you now, or especially in future.
But I wasn’t some gold digger trying to claw at his cash account, or even a woman with daddy issues.
I just thought he was the hottest, funniest man I’d ever met.
He’s old enough to be your dad and you would never be able to introduce him to your immature friends or horrified parents. You look a bit older than your years; he looks a bit younger The pair of you hit a sweet spot where you just about get away with being a couple in public without attracting judgemental stares. He needs no pointers or subtle hints about what he should be wearing. He treats you like a lady An older gentleman is incredibly sexy. A man with experience knows not to remind you of all the effort he made last weekend. His mates don’t come into it You see each other when you’re both willing and available and all the attention is on you. He teaches you things He’s like an encyclopaedia of the world. He has wonderful snippets of trivia to contribute to almost every conversation. He appreciates every inch of your youth Things that boys take for granted he notices and marvels at for hours. He loves your lust for life He thrives on your spontaneity and fearlessness. It’s clearer and easier than many of your previous relationships.
But if he ticks more than six of the following boxes, he may well be a keeper. His friends are older grown-ups like him and he considers them far less interesting than you. He drives a great car / rides a Vespa Stylish older guys can get away with a trendy bike just as much as young ones. He loves your face, your hair, your body, considers you some sort of goddess.